Actual life related blog posting ahead (Don’t worry I’m not dying or anything)
One of my Coworkers is obviously into me and I don’t know what to do. We have similar interest and she’s extremely easy to talk to but she keeps dropping hints/jokes that we should be dating. And like.
Now I’m feeling like the girl in this situation and it’s extremely uncomfortable. Like because I drove her and her mother home from work last night because their car broke down and because I respond to her jokes, comfort her when shes down, defend her when I think she’s in the right and do what I can to make sure she keeps a positive attitude at work, does this mean I’m leading her on?
I’m nearly 30 years old and I know the “standard” man should be looking for a partner right now I’m just not interested. Like she’s extremely cute but she’s so flirty with everyone that I can’t tell if she’s being serious or not and I do NOT want to hurt her feelings. (It makes it 20x worse after today that I learn that she gets emotional over the smallest thing)
And now I’m in the position I’m always in where I fear I’ll make the mistake of straight up leaving instead of confronting someone because I don’t want them hurt.
What the hell do I do in this situation without anyone feeling hurt or at least be put in an awkward position for the rest of the time I’m working here?
sainegrey said: Maybe you just need to tell her that she’s making you feel uncomfortable when she jokes about that. That may lead into a conversation about her being interested in you but that’s better than being in the purgatory of feeling weird about it all the time. I wouldn’t say you’re leading her on, that would require intent. You don’t lead someone on by accident.
spincrit said: Remember Tails, don’t dip your stick in crazy!
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